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GIVEAWAY: Small Steps for Catholic Moms


Catholic Sistas is excited to be a part of the Small Steps for Catholic Moms blog tour, hosted by the good folks at!


I recently heard someone summarize what I already knew to be true, but had failed to put into words…or better said, thought to put into words. Prayer is our center and all we do through the day should be an overflow of that prayer. We were discussing how the religious life works and how their days start in prayer. As laity, our days should also follow this model. Simply put, God has marching orders for us each day. When we don’t report for duty – through prayer – it’s hard for Him to tell us what He wants to accomplish through us.

Distractions, whether mental or physical, can influence how our day goes. Moms, this is all too true for us! How often do we wake to the sweet little pitter patter of feet running down the hallway, which turns to throwing the door to your bedroom WIDE open and ends with arms and legs flailing all over your bed?

image-3Think of prayer as your oxygen mask. In order to help the rest of the family, you have to be centered and grounded in responding to God’s call to spend time with you each day. He desires it and we have to respond in kind by giving Him our time. Personally, I find prayer time first thing in the morning helps to offset the arrival of cranky momma, who usually shows up not long after waking up and before the coffee has gone down the ol’ gullet. When I do make time for prayer, I find the graces are always more than sufficient to get through the day. With six kids, homeschooling, owning a side business, running the blog, attempting to write for the blog, and tossed headlong into various ministries and other apostolates, both online and in my parish community, I found out very quickly that if I squander my time, all else falls to the wayside…and that’s me being intentionally vague about what actually happens. CHAOS would be a better description of my reality. The foundation of my day has to be set just right and with care in order for the rest of the day to go marginally smooth.

I found myself relating heavily to Ginny Sheller’s post promoting the Small Steps Tour. I, too, am a person who is constantly on the go, whether in action or thought. My mind is always spinning with what needs to get done through the day, or am busy working on a project, or thinking about a project that needs to be tackled. I bounce from the domestic front to the blog to homeschooling to parish activities and meetings – round and round we go – WEEE!

The book Small Steps for Catholic Moms, written by Danielle Bean and Elizabeth Foss is written and laid out so simply that it becomes a must have for anyone’s prayer arsenal. If you find yourself in a spiritual rut or live by excuses as to why you can’t find time to pray, this book will put you on the path to break those habits. It is broken down by each month and contains a theme for each. Here, let me just show you how easy your prayer life can become:

1) Wake up.

2) Open book to October 10.

3) Read the following:


“Therefore, be constant in practicing every virtue, and especially in imitating the patience of our dear Jesus, for this is the summit of pure love. Live in such a way that all may know that you bear outwardly as well as inwardly the image of Christ crucified, the model of all gentleness and mercy.”

 – St. Paul of the Cross


You did not only accept your cross, Jesus, you embraced it. Help me to embrace every cross that comes my way.


Is there someone you avoid because he or she talks too much? Call that person today, open your heart, and listen.

This is an excerpt from October, which has a theme of “Patience.”

Now for FREE LOOT!

WIN: Catholic Sistas has TWO copies of Small Steps for Catholic Moms and we want to give them to YOU. How do you enter? Just leave us a comment and we’ll pick a winner once the tour is over on October 12, 2013. Not Catholic? No worries! This book is perfect for any person who desires a deeper, more intimate relationship with Our Lord through prayer and reflection.

WIN BIG: Visit to enter the “Five Minutes Alone” contest to win a HUGE assortment of books, including a copy of Small Steps for Catholic Moms. You only need to fill out the form and leave a comment answering the question What’s the funniest way you grab five minutes alone? Comments won’t win the prize, so be sure to fill out the form on their site!




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About Martina Kreitzer

Martina is a cradle Catholic, wife to Neil, and mother to seven kiddos here {and three in heaven}– 4/96-1/17. She decided to homeschool the kiddos in 2010 after many years in public schools and is currently transitioning out of homeschooling. She is the creator of Catholic Sistas which focuses on a feminine perspective of the Catholic Faith. The website was the result of an existing camaraderie by the contributors in a Catholic women’s group she created. She is also a Seal of Approval evaluator for the Catholic Writers Guild. Lest you think she spends all her time online, Martina has enjoyed getting out into the community by serving on the Pastoral Council from 2010-2013. She is constantly on the lookout to make her parish as welcoming as the small town she grew up in East Texas. This task is not easy given that St. William is the largest parish in the Austin diocese, serving well over twenty thousand parishioners. She loves Jesus, coffee, bacon, chocolate, photography, more bacon, evangelizing, and the company of those unafraid to use their sense of humor.

  • Cynthia - I’d love this book!October 10, 2013 – 5:41 amReplyCancel

  • Katie McDonald - I would love a copy of this. I have Christian devotionals but would love a Catholic one. Thanks!!October 10, 2013 – 7:23 amReplyCancel

  • Jenn - First, I love this blog!! Thanks be to God for your CHAOS that results in touching so many!

    I would love to read this book…. among all the others that I have laying around partially read!! Having instructions would be awesome – sometimes we need someone to tell us what to do!October 10, 2013 – 7:28 amReplyCancel

  • Emily Reed - Hi I would love to win a copy of this book! Sounds like something I’ve been looking for!October 10, 2013 – 7:30 amReplyCancel

  • Nicky Wrigley - I think it’s fantastic that Mom’s are banding together to promote the love of God and that we’re all trying to work together to lead each other closer to Him. Thank you for this article and the giveaway. 🙂 God Bless!!October 10, 2013 – 7:39 amReplyCancel

  • Robyn - Every small step we take to bring ourselves closer to God is a small step that carries the rest of our Domestic Church along with us.October 10, 2013 – 7:40 amReplyCancel

  • Melissa Deguire - I so need this book in my life!! I would love a copyOctober 10, 2013 – 7:45 amReplyCancel

  • Jacki Cobb - Loved this!! Thanks for sharing! Would love to win this book! :-).October 10, 2013 – 7:48 amReplyCancel

  • Annie - I am a mom of 6 wonderful children and I enjoy reading and finding new ways to inspire me and my family through the Jesus. Thank youOctober 10, 2013 – 7:50 amReplyCancel

  • Jody - Anxious to read this–winning a copy would be great!October 10, 2013 – 7:52 amReplyCancel

  • Debra Lundberg - I would be so happy to win a copy. It sounds like just the thing i need to help me develop a stronger prayer life. If not, prayers would be appreciated as well. Thank you!October 10, 2013 – 7:54 amReplyCancel

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  • Angela Dahlke - New to your site. Enjoyed the article. I struggle with my prayer time every day. How can I teach my children what I don’t do myself?October 10, 2013 – 8:04 amReplyCancel

  • Sandy Vas - This is a fantastic giveaway! Fingers crossed and prayers sent.October 10, 2013 – 8:06 amReplyCancel

  • Kathy Sherrick - I would love to give this to my daughter for Christmas!October 10, 2013 – 8:07 amReplyCancel

  • Mindy Pusateri - I would love a copy of this great little book! Sounds wonderful.October 10, 2013 – 8:20 amReplyCancel

  • Melanie Dunn - I could really use some inspiration in my daily life! I have 3 children and we are so busy that I often am not as supportive as I should be.October 10, 2013 – 8:24 amReplyCancel

  • Beth Markovitz - Sounds like a great book!October 10, 2013 – 8:24 amReplyCancel

  • Sandy - This sounds like an awesome book!October 10, 2013 – 8:26 amReplyCancel

  • Erica - Awesome!October 10, 2013 – 8:29 amReplyCancel

  • Cheryl G - I just bought this book for myself & I’m loving it! I would love to win a copy to share with my sister.October 10, 2013 – 8:30 amReplyCancel

  • Rose Jolly - Thank you, thank you, thank you for writing this book, it sounds amazing! I would LOVE to win a copy. I’m homeschooling for the first time to 4 of our 8 kids and it’s a bit overwhelming some days, this would be a blessing to me.
    God Bless Always ~ YSIC 😉October 10, 2013 – 8:36 amReplyCancel

  • Alison Duffy - Yay! Thanks for the review! Sounds like an excellent prayer companion. I would love to own a copy. 🙂October 10, 2013 – 8:39 amReplyCancel

  • Jeanne - Sounds like something I would enjoy reading 🙂October 10, 2013 – 8:41 amReplyCancel

  • Britta Kreps - This book is already on my wishlist. What a perfect resource for us busy moms.October 10, 2013 – 8:42 amReplyCancel

  • Jeanne D - This is definitely something I would enjoy as I continue to find ways to deepen my faith!October 10, 2013 – 8:47 amReplyCancel

  • Angelia - I am always looking for more books catered to my two vocations, being a mother and a gracious Catholic. Thank-you for the chance to win this book!October 10, 2013 – 8:51 amReplyCancel

  • Carmella Olson - I grab a few minutes by myself when I ask the kids to take the dog in the yard to play. It’s good for them and the dog loves it.October 10, 2013 – 8:51 amReplyCancel

  • Ann - I so enjoy reading saints’ writings – sounds like a great book to get! nice post!October 10, 2013 – 9:03 amReplyCancel

  • Elaine - Thanks for the opportunity to win!October 10, 2013 – 9:17 amReplyCancel

  • Christina - Sounds like just the book/devotional I need in my life right now!October 10, 2013 – 9:29 amReplyCancel

  • melissa - I need this! I know we all go through this…those times when you are just drained emotionally and you know it’s because you are drained spiritually. We all need to deepen our prayer lives, and for me, I’m the one who constantly gets in the way of it!October 10, 2013 – 9:36 amReplyCancel

  • Kelli - This sounds like the perfect book for me right now. As I embark on my journey back to the church as a mom of 2 littles I am finding a hard time knowing how/what to do.October 10, 2013 – 9:36 amReplyCancel

  • Lora - This book sounds like it would be valuable for helping me stay on track with prayer and spiritual reflection.October 10, 2013 – 10:04 amReplyCancel

  • Cat - This book looks fantastic!October 10, 2013 – 10:05 amReplyCancel

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  • Jaclyn Johnson - Can’t wait to read it!October 10, 2013 – 10:23 amReplyCancel

  • amanda Salazar - Even if I don’t win please let me know how to purchase.October 10, 2013 – 10:51 amReplyCancel

  • Cindy Ortiz - Would love read this one!!October 10, 2013 – 11:00 amReplyCancel

  • tarah - Sounds good! thanks for the give away!October 10, 2013 – 11:07 amReplyCancel

  • Karyn - I have been working to get up before the kids so I have time to pray and read – this book would be perfect. Thanks for this contest.October 10, 2013 – 11:13 amReplyCancel

  • kimberly tucker - I could have really used this book, when I woke up today. I have 4 sick children. My washing machine broke yesterday, the telephone is lost, and I am out of chocolate. I have been awake since 3:00 a.m. I am supposed chaperone a high school bonfire tonight, tomorrow is homecoming, and my daughter is Senior Candidate…I have a football game to watch, followed by chaperoning the home coming dance. I have been notified, I need to make a crock pot of chili to sell at the game…so thrilled.October 10, 2013 – 11:42 amReplyCancel

  • Nicole Alvarez - I love the picture you painted…just wake up and read. I can do that!!October 10, 2013 – 11:44 amReplyCancel

  • Sarah - I’d like to win the book, too!October 10, 2013 – 11:51 amReplyCancel

  • Jennifer H - I would love to win a copy of this book! 🙂 It’s going on my wishlist regardless!October 10, 2013 – 12:21 pmReplyCancel

  • Tammy - Awesome giveaway, thanks!October 10, 2013 – 12:56 pmReplyCancel

  • Stephanie - Would love to win a copy of this for a dear friend! I have one already and I love it 🙂October 10, 2013 – 1:35 pmReplyCancel

  • Beth Workman - I just “pinned” this book! So, it’s been on my mind. I think it could be powerfully helpful for my spiritual life right now.October 10, 2013 – 1:42 pmReplyCancel

  • nancy ochs - would love to win this…October 10, 2013 – 1:49 pmReplyCancel

  • Esther - I would love the opportunity to win a copy of the book! Thank you for participating in the blog tour!October 10, 2013 – 2:06 pmReplyCancel

  • Amanda - Always looking for a good read to nourish my mama soul! Would love to win!October 10, 2013 – 4:32 pmReplyCancel

  • carol bireley - Sounds like a good way to wind downOctober 10, 2013 – 4:56 pmReplyCancel

  • Lynn B - This book has been on my wish list for a long time. I would love to win one! :)Having read Elizabeth’s writing for years, I know it’s top notch. Danielle’s too. What talented, holy women we are privileged to “know” in our walk!October 10, 2013 – 5:24 pmReplyCancel

  • Ruth Anne - Would LOVE a chance to win this book! Thanks!October 10, 2013 – 6:26 pmReplyCancel

  • Gramma Kate - I’d love to be able to give this to my dear daughter, a home-schooling mom of six beautiful youngsters!October 10, 2013 – 8:57 pmReplyCancel

  • Cherry P. - Would love to have this book! Thanks!October 10, 2013 – 10:05 pmReplyCancel

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  • Lynnette K - This sounds like a great format to be able to stick with it.October 10, 2013 – 11:35 pmReplyCancel

  • Karianna - I was thinking of getting this in an Ebook, but I think I’d love a hard copy!October 11, 2013 – 12:40 amReplyCancel

  • rachael - I would totally love to win this! Im a new mama wanting to do the job right:)October 11, 2013 – 12:46 amReplyCancel

  • Robyn - Thanks for the giveaway!October 11, 2013 – 7:57 amReplyCancel

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  • Audrey Charba - Thanks for the giveaway!October 11, 2013 – 2:34 pmReplyCancel

  • Kristin - Awesome giveaway!October 11, 2013 – 8:09 pmReplyCancel

  • Kim - what a great giveawayOctober 12, 2013 – 1:50 amReplyCancel

  • Jeannette - I would love to win this!! I have 2 boys (ages 1 and 2) and another little one on the way…I have always wanted a big family! 🙂 I have found my kids have brought me to the feet of Jesus more than I ever brought myself on my own. Being a mom rocks…and being a catholic mom makes life worth living well 🙂October 12, 2013 – 2:06 pmReplyCancel

  • Beth - I would love a copy!October 12, 2013 – 2:08 pmReplyCancel

  • Brittany - I hope you haven’t picked yet!!!! I can’t wait to read this book!!!October 12, 2013 – 2:18 pmReplyCancel

  • Janine Gonya - Sounds like a book I need! thanksOctober 12, 2013 – 8:56 pmReplyCancel

  • Martina - The contest is now closed and a winner will be picked shortly!October 13, 2013 – 1:45 pmReplyCancel

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