Yesterday, the popular website, Buzzfeed, gathered 22 female employees for an article highlighting why the women use contraception. Other articles circulating social media had snippets of reasons that women use birth control. Most of these recent pro-birth control articles have been written in response the Supreme Court ruling in the Hobby Lobby case.
The Catholic faith teaches that contraception is immoral. Why? Because sex is for babies and bonding and contraception serves neither of those purposes. It thwarts our call to be open to God’s gift of children and it doesn’t allow us to offer our spouse the fullness of ourselves as part of sexual love, because we’ve removed our fertility from the offering. The Church does recognize that women may need to use hormonal contraception for health reasons; article 15 of Humanae Vitae states that a woman may use hormonal contraception to control disease if she doesn’t implicitly intend to use it to prevent conception. Fortunately, there are other, healthier ways to overcome many of the problems hormonal birth control aims to fix and we encourage our readers to investigate those options.
To that end, we’d like to share some of our reasons for NOT using birth control. These are our beliefs and we don’t wish to force anyone to accept or follow what we believe, but we do wish to educate others on a perspective that is rarely offered in the media. Because while all faithful Catholics eschew contraception, our reasons for doing so are as varied as the women themselves.
We do not use birth control…….
“Because observing and charting my fertility is empowering!”
“Because my fertility shouldn’t be treated like a disease and medicated away.”
“For I don’t want to ingest a class 1 Carcinogen, which is what the Pill has been designated by the World Health Organization.”
“Because the hormones can lower your sex drive (and cause weight gain). And I like having a sex drive!”
“Because I consider working with my fertility a form of feminist empowerment.”
“Because I don’t want the side-effects–especially the lethal side-effects!–of hormonal contraception.”
“Because I spend too much time and money on organic, non-GMO and hormone free foods to fill my body with synthetic hormones.”
“Because there are doctors who can work with my fertility to actually heal my reproductive health problems and they can’t do that if I’m on birth control.”
“Because my fertility is my superpower.”
“Because I don’t like how the hormones affected me psychologically.”
“Because I don’t think it’s healthy for my body to think it is perpetually pregnant.”
“Because I think the delayed gratification of using NFP to avoid pregnancy is good for our marriage.”
“Because having a family is on my bucket list and I want to be my healthiest when that time comes.”
“Because I cannot imagine one of my children not existing.”
“Because in addition to suppressing ovulation, hormonal contraception can prevent pregnancy by flushing out a newly conceived child before it implants. And I’m pro-life.”
“Because I accept my body the way it is.”
“Because fertility is not a pathology.”
“Because I am responsible and make mindful decisions, accepting the consequences to every action I make.”
“Because we like our sex environmentally friendly.”
“Because I think the self-control needed for periodic abstinence is good for me and our marriage.”
Because I don’t like the idea of drinking water with other people’s estrogen in it.”
“Because when my husband is willing to wait until my body says we can be together, it makes me feel respected and appreciated as a woman.”
“Because I love the first little flutters of a baby growing within me.”
“Because a baby in mommy’s tummy makes my older kids so excited.”
“Because I love babies!”
“Because it is against my faith.”
“Because I don’t like feeling like I’m solely responsible for our family planning; I want my husband to participate in the decision-making process as often as I do.”
“Because the first thing my mom’s oncologist asked her when she was told she had breast cancer was, “Were you on the pill?”
“Because I don’t think the very natural, normal condition of fertility ought to be medicated.”
“Because siblings are a gift.”
“Because nothing in the world smells better than a baby’s head.”
“Because sex isn’t a right, it is a gift.”
“Because I love that my husband desires all of me–including my fertility.”
Jeanne is a happily married wife (to Ryan, July 2008) and mama of two beautiful biological children (Maximus 2009 & Caroline 2011). In 2014, Jeanne and Ryan finalized the adoption of Harlei (2012) into their family. As a “Cradle Catholic,” she spent years going through the motions before she actually came to understand and fall in love with our beautiful faith. Now, she enjoys discussing it with others, trying her best to live it.