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PINK Betrayal

Erika and Birgit in post-chemo do’s

I’m a cancer survivor. It’s a point of pride for me – and a badge of honor. All of the scars I bear, both physical and mental, were earned in hand to hand combat with an evil monster of a disease. This monster took my grandmother at 42, my mother at 58 and tried to take both my 28 year old daughter and her unborn child in 2009! I’ve been to the bowels of hell and back. I have fought the good fight and, for the time being, I have won! My enemy surrounds me, though, and he is never far from me. He lurks in the corners of my subconscious and seeks to destroy me – if not by eating away at my body, then by eating away at my life of calm control over who I am. He honors no boundaries and his hunger for victims is unquenchable. This formidable foe never sleeps.

A small consolation of having cancer, however, is a certain sense of ‘belonging’ to a highly specialized Club. It is truly not a Club one would voluntarily join. It is a Club whose ‘hazing’ is difficult to survive – a life or death struggle. But once you are ‘in’ you are a Star! I truly love my brothers and sisters in cancer with a love that is strong, vibrant and true. We cling together. When one suffers, we all suffer. When one dies, a little piece of us dies with them. And when we battle, we battle hand-in-hand, careless and free, with not a single worry of how we look to the ‘outsiders’…we are a family and our numbers make us strong!

For me, however, there is also a very personal pain associated with membership. This pain is one of seclusion and exclusion. It haunts me and propels me at the same time. I want to share my thoughts but often find myself shunned, even by my fellow Club Members. As much as I seek camaraderie and unity, I simply cannot compromise my principles to join the ‘Inner Circle’ of this crowd. I’ve been blackballed…excluded by none other than the Susan G Komen foundation, and others like her*. She proclaims to care about us – the victims, the survivors, the dead. But she is a Wily Lass and has deceptive ways. She talks the talk of healing and of the ‘cure’ but she lies. Her ways are not my ways. Her god is not my God. She worships at the table of public pride and seeks the monetary reward of donations and status.

Abortion and the Pill cause Breast Cancer!

She also has ungodly bedfellows. Even as she proclaims to fight for a cure she sashays around, hand-in-hand, with Planned Parenthood. PlannedParenthood receives a large share of her ill-gotten gains. Komen is a traitor! How can she support Planned Parenthood and still claim purity of intention? Planned Parenthood, the largest provider of abortion – a procedure which is known to vastly increase breast cancer – is given donor money even though they do not provide a single mammogram – ANYWHERE in the nation.  Planned Parenthood, who cannot and does not help any who are in the clutches of the demon, Cancer!

Pro-lifers can’t support this until they are morally sound.

Ironically I’ve had the honor of having my name written on a jersey of someone who ‘raced for the cure’. This created an awkward situation for me. The well-meaning friend was chagrined to learn of the Komen/PP connection. I hated to cause her hurt – after all, she was being considerate and ‘honoring’ my daughter and me. But you can’t be squeamish with your principles and so I had to take a stand.

It is heartening that there are more stories exposing this uncomfortable truth out there this year, however, sharing details of this illicit relationship. More people are becoming aware of how blatantly we Cancer Fighters are being used as a commodity. There are now Bishops in the United States who have come through by asking the parishes in their diocese not to promote or donate to Komen. There are stories all around the pro-life community and a medical journal article has recently been published showing the abortion/breast cancer link. This is great news!

One of these days, I will be able to join the Elite Club. I’ll be able to walk or run or race for the cure. That high that one gets from being a participant publicly – a survivor – will be mine! In the mean time, I will continue to cringe reflexively whenever I see the pink bedecked masses. I will feel that feeling of being on the outside looking in. My Membership will be denied and although I will feel the private joy of having come this long seven years with no recurrence, I will not be a part of that particular Pink Parade. I will not sell out, I will not pretend, and I will not foolishly be lead down the Pink Primrose Path when there are evil alliances colluding to take the ‘pink’ money and use it for evil. Until then I will encourage everyone I meet to ‘rethink the PINK’. The wish of myself and others like me is to ‘Take Back the Pink’ for breast cancer research that is morally sound. Won’t you join us in spreading the news?

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* In addition to donating to Planned Parenthood, the American Cancer Society also supports research using Embryonic Stem Cells. These are cell lines derived from aborted babies. The ACS is therefore also on the illicit organizations list.

 

Erika and Rachel – survivors of breast cancer while pregnant.

Pro-life ways to donate to the Breast Cancer Cause:

Directly to a Cancer Victim: At age 28, Erika was diagnosed with Breast Cancer. She was also 20 weeks pregnant. On October 28, 2011 she is scheduled for her 5th surgery!

The Polycarp Research Institute (TPRI): TPRI performs high-quality medical research & serves as a resource center. Research areas: Abortion – Breast Cancer, Oral Contraceptive – Breast Cancer, Postfertilization effect of Emergency Contraception, Postfertilization effect of Oral Contraceptive.

Breast Cancer Prevention Institute Home Page: Our website is dedicated to providing the most up-to-date and accurate information to medical professionals and the general public on how to prevent breast cancer. Our on-line publications, as well as our list of other resources, are all designed to provide you with knowledge of practical, risk-reduction strategies.

National Breast Cancer Foundation® Official Site – Information, Awareness & Donations: Breast cancer information, facts, statistics, symptoms and treatments, early detection, mammography screenings, and breast cancer research from the official non-profit source offering charity donations and corporate sponsorship opportunities for breast cancer.

About BirgitJ

Birgit is a 50-something cradle Catholic who is passionate about the pro-life movement. She enthusiastically serves on the Diocesan Gospel of Life Committee where she chairs pro-life events and writes pro-life articles. Birgit has been married to her Catholic convert husband, Rick, for 37 years. They have four children and seven grandchildren (all age eight and under). Their frequent visits eliminate any fear of an empty nest! Her vibrant Catholic faith colors every aspect of her life. She also sings in the church choir with her husband and daughter. Other interests include politics, as they relate to ‘Life’, and Church liturgy as well as photography, cooking, and gardening. She can also be found on her personal blog, Designs by Birgit.

  • Jessica - It bothers me to no end that SGK vehemently denies a connection between abortion/hormomal birth control and breast cancer. Haven’t breast cancer rates only increased since abortion was legalized and birth control became the “norm”? I’m praying for you, Komen. You could do great wonderful things for the world, but you are denying the truth. Something isn’t false just because you want it to be false. Stand up for women’s health. Respect us. Tell us the truth even though it may be against popular opinion.October 18, 2011 – 7:39 amReplyCancel

  • Rachel - Thank you for sharing this in such an eloquent way. It is difficult to face the women I love and explain why we do not support a “cure”. It is almost as if they feel personally rejected and that I wish their death. Yet, it is life that I truly support. It saddens me the things that Komen spends their money on ~ not just PP, but also the $1M/year in lawsuits against any other organization who “uses their trademarks”. Really, a “cure” or the color “pink” is a trademark?? Sadly it has become about money more than anything else…October 18, 2011 – 9:24 amReplyCancel

  • judi - Thank you for sharing your story and being brave enough to stand up against the hypocrisy filling the fight against breast cancer. I know of a lot of Christian friends who eagerly participate in the SGK walks every October. I need to follow your example and be brave enough to give them the facts.October 18, 2011 – 9:42 amReplyCancel

  • Cindy - Dear Birgit,

    I’m so glad I found your page, and am so inspired by the personal stories that you’ve shared. THANK YOU for bringing this issue to light. I started to have doubts about this “campaign” when, about eight or nine years ago when I was shopping at Wal-Mart and noticed they were either selling pink light bulbs, or had pink light bulbs in the checkout lane lights (I can’t recall which); maybe both. It struck me then and there that corporations were trying to make a profit off of cancer patients – namely women. Frankly, I “smelled a rat.”

    Over the years I started reading various articles on this new pink campaign obsession. At the same time I was also starting researching healthier eating habits. I found that other’s shared the same views that I had been forming regarding these two issues (harmful chemicals in drugs and foods, and the ever-increasing illnesses in our culture). I know I’m preaching to the choir, but I wanted to share with you what I have found over the years regarding this issue (I tried to sum them up):
    •Most importantly: Planned Parenthood’s association with the SGK Foundation (as you have found), not to mention a lot of other shady associations
    •Many of the corporations pushing “pink-a-fied” products give very little from their profits to the Campaign. Corruption, corruption, corruption.
    •Many of the corporations produce cancer-causing chemicals in some, or all, of their products, including some of the pharmaceutical companies that produce dangerous drugs. I can’t see where junk food, fast food companies, and companies using dangerous chemicals, honestly care about women’s health since health isn’t something they make their profits from.
    •Is it a guy thing? Seriously, when I first saw the slogan “save the ta-ta’s” I nearly blew a gasket. And now, High School kids around the nation are sporting T-shirts and wrist bands with slogans such as: “feel for lumps, save your bumps” and “I (heart) Boobies.” I kind of have the feeling that adolescent boys (whose hormones are bouncing off the walls) are more interested in the “breast” aspect of this campaign than anything else. I know that many men are directly affected by breast cancer in their families, and I grieve with them; however, I think a lot of men are duped into supporting the campaign because of its “hooter-esque” appeal. In fact, I saw that Hooter’s restaurant promotes and gives big to the campaign (after all, women’s breasts are they “sell”).

    In my opinion, I believe this last part of my research is mostly why the breast cancer awareness has grown by monstrous proportions over the years. One reason is because I don’t see nearly half the same amount of support for heart disease, which kills more women every year than any other disease; nor do I see even an inkling of this amount of support diseases that affect children and men.

    Please know that my heart goes out to all who suffer from every form of cancer, and I’m all for direct-donation, or donating to the groups you have suggested. And, though, personally, if ever faced with this disease, I might prefer a more holistic cure, I certainly believe everyone has to make their own decision on which healing route they want to take. Thank you again for bravely posting on this issue – I have found that it is very challenging to de-program people, especially if they’re very involved in the cause. I strongly believe in getting the word out and educating people about this issue.

    Sorry to have rambled on!

    May God bless you for making others aware!

    CindyOctober 18, 2011 – 10:06 amReplyCancel

  • Martina - This posts speaks beautifully to the sentiment out there that those of us who object to Komen, are not, in fact, objecting to finding a cure to breast cancer.

    It’s one thing I wish we could get past…by objecting to Komen, we are simply objecting to the evil it has chosen to associate itself with…*NOT* finding a cure. If we could get more people to understand…and we have to start with survivors such as yourself being brave enough to be the whistleblower on the corruptness of organizations like Komen. Thank you for sharing, Birgit. 🙂October 18, 2011 – 10:16 amReplyCancel

  • Lisa @Granola Catholic - I am soo glad you wrote this, coming from a survivor’s perspective. There is just so much pink washing going on. People do not realize that wearing Pink will not cure breast cancer.October 18, 2011 – 10:12 pmReplyCancel

  • DeLisa - Thank you so much for having the courage to stand strong for your convictions and sharing your story! I’ve slowly been educated on SGK and it saddens me to learn what I’ve learned.October 19, 2011 – 8:32 amReplyCancel

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